The Equator and another Invisible Line

Continuing from my post about "Guy Friends":

Much like the equator, there is another invisible line. This line may not be crossed (only under certain circumstances). If crossed, things will become a hot mess.

He's your best friend, you basically tell him everything. Sometimes things you can't even tell your best friend, Aria. She would just be too judgmental and probably make the situation worse.

But there is a very fine line between what you do with your guy friend and what you do with your boyfriend.

And once you cross that line, there's really no going back.

Yes, it's true, many people say the person you're with should also be your best friend. But it's a terrible idea to take this literally. Yeah, you should be comfortable with your boyfriend and be able to confide in him.

But with a boyfriend there are certain expectations.
For one, you might want to actually look like a girl and not always be in "sweat pants, hair tied chillin' with no make-up on". Let's be honest, that's really not when you're the "prettiest".

With your guy friend? Well who cares what you look like, even if he says something. You'll completely ignore him, or remember what he said and use it against him later -- it's your choice.

But please don't expect to be treated like a girlfriend, if you're really not his girlfriend. No matter how amazing that imaginary relationship you have going on inside your head is. He doesn't know about it, and it should stay that way. Or you'll automatically be knocked down on the hotness scale, as it is directly proportional to the crazy scale.