I don't have the patience, interest or time to deal with it.
People who like causing problems and spreading lies have no place in my life.
If you think that it's okay to start rumours, spread lies and sabotage friendships, you're seriously messed up and need to deal with your insecurities. No one needs a negative person in their lives.
The funny part is the person you are closest to has the power to hurt you most. The fact that they use that power against you, is just tragic.
Not only have they ruined any relationship or understanding you had with each other, but most likely, in the process of 'hating' you, they ruined your friendship with other people.
You may not have even known that something was wrong. But as usual, you're the one who makes the first step to resolve the problem. This involves having conversations you rather not have, and many tears.
Why can't people just live their life, and let everyone else live theirs?
Everyone has enough stress and problems to deal with, what kind of twisted person would just try to add to a struggle that already exists.
Is it worth spending time to fix this? You still love the person, but now you have to think about what they're really like. If they act like this once, what would make a second time any less likely?
But I am also one of those people who thinks forgiveness is a good thing.
This doesn't mean I'm wrong, but that i'm willing to move on.
It doesn't make what you did any less hurtful, it doesn't reduce the amount of time I spent thinking about the problem and it will never change what you did.
But we might be able to salvage what's left of our friendship. And you can feel bad for the rest of your life, knowing that you lost your best friend over a miscommunication.
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